In Loving Memory...

So... the last time I updated was like when??? Eons ago... Why? Because I am still getting used to the idea of being a multi-talented role models in my life. I'm a sister, I'm a daughter, I'm a friend, I'm an enemy. To top it all of, I'm also a wife. It's not easy having to be all-in-one at the same time... Especially since I am the first to get married into a family of 7 boys... "When a girl marries, she got her lover (husband) and on top of that, she also gets the whole family F.O.C" Well, I couldn't agree more... Sometimes, I really feels like going somewhere far far away from all these and just lock myself up in a room spending the time alone without all the calamities... But that's another story for another day... A few months back, when I attended a friend's wedding, hubby asked me this question: "If given a choice, what would you change about our wedding day?" Seriously, I was shocked when he asked me that. First thought that came to mind was "Is this a trick question?" I mean no matter how long or how short a wedding is planned there will always be cock-ups here and there. I have yet to see a wedding that is planned super perfectly with all the contingency plans in place. Like come on... some problems just come as they please. Before I answer the question, here is a little summary of my wedding. My wedding was held on 22102011. It was planned and carried out within 8 months. Actually less than that because I remember confirming the venue only in March. Or was it May? Can't remember. Everything was planned as simple as can be as I do not have time to engage a wedding planner although I would very much love to. While preparing for my wedding, I was facing with some financial problems. I was working double shifts. I was stress beyond words. Obviously, it wasn't a perfect wedding but I am happy to say that it went as smoothly as it ever could. Honestly, if I were really given a choice to do it all over again, I would make sure that everything was ready by September. Even on the last day before my marriage when I was supposed to be confined in the house and stuff, I was running to JB to collect some last minute stuff. I went JB in the morning, my henna party is on that very night. I was tired and chasing for time. I got scolded by many due to this stunt because they fear of my safety since I'm supposed to be very 'fragile'. Even on the morning of the wedding day itself, I was super stressed because my dowry got lost in transition. Somehow. Oh well. Things that happen on my wedding day seems funny when I think about it now. Happy 6th month dear... These few months were not easy but I'm glad we survived it. HUAT AHH!!!