Back to the Old School...

I have been going through my itinerary from my treasure chest.
Surprisingly, some of the stuff still left a huge imprint in my memories and my emotions.
And, some of it kept me thinking.

Doesn't these people actually think of what impact their actions have on our emotions and self esteem?
Don't they realise that their actions created a huge impact in others?
Are they that dumb that they do not see the bigger picture to the whole thing?

Promises are made, hopes are grown, and suddenly...
Poof! Gone! Just like that. with five words.
"I think we are not compatible..."

And it's over.

All the things that were said and done and been through together meant nothing.
After meeting with the family and having to put up with the differences for so long, nothing matters anymore.
The irritating thing is, during that courtship, some friends were forgotten and left behind.
All the time and effort were channeled to the supposed one.
And when things do not go "Happily ever after", you were suddenly thrown down from cloud nine to the hard ground soil.
It sure is not easy to stand after a hard fall like that especially when dependency is very high.

Moral of my gibberish:

Never ditch your friends for that supposed "The One" when nothing is ever certain in the first place.
Like come on...
Even people who are happily married can be divorced.
What more in the courtship stage?
When your friends have gotten used to the idea that you will never be available to spend time with friends, they will just leave you alone.
It does not make a difference whether you are there or not.
Your friends do not leave you; you stayed away from your friends to spend more time with lover boy.

Go figure.